Frontex aren't the one killing migrants. The human trafficers in norrthern Africa are the ones responsible for putting them in overfilled boats that aren't barely seaworthy.
We seem to keep coming back to people demanding the right to feel good about their political views here. At least own up to them and don't start crying when people hold you responsible for a conscious decision to vote right.
If it's more important to you not to be called something than not to actually be that thing, I'm not sure what to tell you. At any rate you seem very concerned with what your vote says about you. Maybe that deserves some pondering